Know Your Story

Discover Your Roadmap
to Healing

When we understand the sources of our sexual problems,
we can begin to outgrow them and
pursue the lives we desire.

Break the Cycles of Shame and Self-Destruction


Discover lasting freedom from unwanted sexual behavior.

 

Pornography, affairs, buying sex, and other unwanted sexual behaviors
provide clues into our life stories. Our research involving nearly 4,000 men and women
revealed a life-giving path to freedom.

Get the Book

START YOUR JOURNEY

Explore the key drivers of unwanted sexual behavior, why people stay in self-destructive patterns, and how to disempower shame in this research-driven approach to healing.

Begin Your

Transformation

THE WORKSHOP

Join others on a journey to healing in
a 3+ hour virtual workshop. Get hands-on time
with Jay himself as you apply what you read
in Unwanted.

Dive Deeper Into

Your Story

3-DAY INTENSIVES

Take a life-changing deeper dive into
how your story is shaping your unwanted sexual behavior or betrayal trauma with 12 hours of individual coaching.

FOR THERAPISTS, COACHES, AND CLERGY

Become an Unwanted Guide

Want to lead others through their unwanted behaviors? Change the paradigm for those you serve. This train-the-trainer experience will equip you with the resources and experience needed to help others connect the dots between unwanted behavior and their stories.

Begin a Practical Journey to Deep Healing


Most approaches
to addressing unwanted sexual behavior, be that porn, infidelity, or low desire
are singular and formulaic. We now know enough about spirituality, culture and the neuroscience of trauma, abuse,
and out-of-control behaviors to know all of them must be integrated
to create lasting freedom from unwanted sexual behavior.

Because our approach blends all of them, it works. You can outgrow unwanted behaviors.

We will show you how.