Know Your Story
Discover Your Roadmap
to Healing
When we understand the sources of our sexual problems,
we can begin to outgrow them and
pursue the lives we desire.
Break the Cycles of Shame and Self-Destruction
Discover lasting freedom from unwanted sexual behavior.
Pornography, affairs, buying sex, and other unwanted sexual behaviors
provide clues into our life stories. Our research involving nearly 4,000 men and women
revealed a life-giving path to freedom.
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Transformation
THE WORKSHOP
a 3+ hour virtual workshop. Get hands-on time
with Jay himself as you apply what you read
in Unwanted.
Dive Deeper Into
Your Story
3-DAY INTENSIVES
how your story is shaping your unwanted sexual behavior or betrayal trauma with 12 hours of individual coaching.
FOR THERAPISTS, COACHES, AND CLERGY
Become an Unwanted Guide
Want to lead others through their unwanted behaviors? Change the paradigm for those you serve. This train-the-trainer experience will equip you with the resources and experience needed to help others connect the dots between unwanted behavior and their stories.
Begin a Practical Journey to Deep Healing
Most approaches to addressing unwanted sexual behavior, be that porn, infidelity, or low desire
are singular and formulaic. We now know enough about spirituality, culture and the neuroscience of trauma, abuse,
and out-of-control behaviors to know all of them must be integrated
to create lasting freedom from unwanted sexual behavior.
Because our approach blends all of them, it works. You can outgrow unwanted behaviors.
We will show you how.