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Adult Sex Education Resources
After my podcast with Jen Hatmaker last week, I received a message from an Instagram follower inquiring about adult sex education. Although it's...
Low Desire Resources
Learn to be curious about your low desire. Establishing early, consistent, and curiosity-filled conversations with your partner is one of the...
What I Learned From Trauma This Year
On November 1st, I had an electric scooter accident that ended with me fracturing two elbows. That night, my family was on our fleet of...
A Recipe For Violence: How The Atlanta Spa Shootings Mixed Purity Culture, Unwanted Sexual Behavior, and Racism
On March 16, 2021 a series of mass shootings occurred in three spas in the Atlanta metropolitan area. Eight people were killed, six of whom were...
I Want To Destroy Your Trophies
On my son's 7th birthday I took him on a trip to mark and celebrate the terrain of his soul: play and exploration. We flew to Orlando, took...
How Election Day Angst Triggers Us
If election day angst is triggering your porn use, you’re not alone. Whether an article by CNN, Fox News, or a cantankerous post against “the other...
Ravi Zacharias And The Sexual Binge & Purge Cycle of Evangelical Men
Sadly, we're here again. Another prominent male Christian leader abusing his power and squandering their reputation through their sexual behavior....
What is Hentai Porn? A Guide for Parents
By Jay Stringer In 2019, the second most searched for term in pornography was hentai. That’s right, one of the most popular types of...
A Serenity Prayer for Porn Addiction
by Jay Stringer The Serenity Prayer God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, Courage to change the things I can, And...
What if your porn use could be a roadmap to healing, not a life sentence to sexual shame or addiction? That's exactly what my research on over 3,800...
Good Enough Parenting in a Time of Crisis
I’ve had my one-month trial of pandemic parenting and I’d like to cancel my subscription. Being a parent is one of the most rewarding and maddening...
Here’s Support For Partners Who Feel Betrayed By Their Partner’s Porn Habit
https://fightthenewdrug.org/i-think-my-partner-is-looking-at-porn-after-promising-not-to-what-do-i-do/
Coronavirus, Porn, and Anxiety: When Three Pandemics Converge
Times of uncertainty like the one we’re in naturally intensify anxiety and powerlessness, and with it, the spread of pornography use. We turn to...
The Allender Center Podcast
On the Allender Center Podcast, Jay sits down with Dan Allender for this three-part podcast to explore three central questions: How Did I Become the...
The Place We Find Ourselves Podcast
Jay talks with Adam Young on the The Place We Find Ourselves about how understanding our story can help us find healing when we're struggling with...
